With the holidays upon us, parties will begin soon. Do you know how to be a good guest? It seems obvious but look around you at a party these days (or even out at dinner)and I am sure you will note behavior changes that could be made.
Here are some helpful tips to help you stand out as one with fine etiquette:
Always, always, and always RSVP
Even if you are unable to attend the party, you should out of respect, respond ASAP.
This will allow the party giver to properly plan.
Are you unsure what the description on the invitation means? It's OK to call your host for clarification. You want to be sure you show up to the party dressed appropriately. You don't want to show up over, or under-dressed.
Unless the invitation allows for “and guest,” it is not appropriate to bring someone who hasn't already been invited to the party.
If you wish to bring a guest and are good friends, or family, with the host, you can ask if it's ok if you bring an extra guest along. Your host will make the decision if they can accommodate an extra person.
Do not show up to the party empty-handed. When invited to a holiday gathering at someone’s home, you should always arrive with something for the host. It can be a bottle of wine, box of candy, or flowers.
Don't be surprised if you receive unexpected gifts. Purchase extra holiday gift cards from local well-known stores (ie: Barnes & Nobles, Macy's..) to bring along with you. They will come in handy when you are handed an unexpected gift.
If you're attending a work party with your significant other, fill them in on small details.
If a co-worker recently had a baby, or took a nice trip, fill your date in on the details. This will make him/her feel involved if they know a little bit about what your co-workers are talking about.
Accept what is offered graciously. You may have disliked a certain food, but if a plate is offered to you upon leaving, accept it politely.
If you have certain likes & dislikes, or if you are a vegetarian, do not impose your eating habits onto others. Take servings of food you like and politely decline the foods you dislike.
If you have an actual medical condition, or are allergic to certain foods, you can let your host know so they can make accommodations. You can also offer to bring a favorite dish to the party for everyone to enjoy, this way you know you will be able to nibble on something just in case.
Remember your manners at the table. Again, this seems obvious but if you want to know what I am talking about just visit your neighborhood restaurant and observe!
Put your napkin in your lap, don't reach over others' plates to grab a dish. Instead politely ask for someone to pass the dish to you.
Do not apply lipstick or comb your hair at the table. Please!
Always write a thank-you note and send it within 2-3 days to your host.
Ideally, you should thank your host verbally when you leave the party and also send a thank-you note.
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